June, and Pride, and the “who belongs at Pride and who doesn’t and why” discourse always gives me a big bundle of Feelings, with an...

Some people (like yours truly) are talkers - they show interest by sharing the everyday and mundane in any format available to them...

No one wins when you fight to win. I shared this post on my personal Facebook page this week, which was attributed to someone named...

This is one of those topics where everyone might have a different answer. Because of that, I’m making it a series, and I’m literally...

We talked recently about negative, difficult emotions that you will feel your own personal version of at some point in your life. And our...

As I’ve said before, we tend to take for granted that love is the core of whether of a relationship lasts. The Beatles song is strong...

The last time we talked about compersion, we defined it and talked about why it isn’t mandatory. As a reminder, compersion is the...

If we could build a model of my mind (very different from my brain, I’ve seen loads of those), it would be the midieval castle at Haut...

As you may have noticed in my last post, my take on the Polyamorous Expert is that they don’t exist. I’m an educator, I’ve been doing...

If you make it out to enough meetups and make a group of poly friends who have other poly friends, you will with time meet all the...

I believe in sleepovers - with partners, that is. I think they’re a super-important marker of increased intimacy in a relationship; a...

One of the things I mentioned in my What is the Best Thing About Polyamory entry (and that came up more than once in the comments on...

I have a deeply complicated relationship with all the press (especially tabloid press) polyamory has received lately. It’s a necessary...

The best thing about polyamory is that it lets me love myself above others without guilt. I don’t mean for this to sound selfish; and it...

There are lots of things in life that are Do As I Say, Not As I Do for a person sharing collective advice. I’m a LOT better about...

We went through a lot of theory in Part 6 of this series - and very little in the way of stories and practical examples. A lot of that...

Rather than focusing on a polycule, today, we’re going to focus on how a pair of dyad relationships, each involving one common person,...

Most extended constellations or big polycules are actually a mix of kitchen table and parallel polyamorous styles. You hit a point where...

Today, we have the basic idea of Kitchen Table Polyamory: being friendly among all of each other’s partners that could sit and have a cup...

Beyond the basic idea of having a cup of coffee at the kitchen table, people’s idea of “kitchen table polyamory” can vary widely. When...