Hierarchy is one of the concepts in polyamory that stirs up strong feelings in conversation every time it comes up. There’s a contingent...

We talked recently about negative, difficult emotions that you will feel your own personal version of at some point in your life. And our...

The last time we talked about compersion, we defined it and talked about why it isn’t mandatory. As a reminder, compersion is the...

This isn’t just a polyamory thing. This is a Life Thing. Zero-sum Thinking is the idea that if someone else has something, there’s less...

Compersion is a word you probably won’t use or hear unless you’re polyamorous, or have a lot of polyamorous friends. I define it in this...

There are lots of things in life that are Do As I Say, Not As I Do for a person sharing collective advice. I’m a LOT better about...

Or, a brief examination of sexual and emotional jealousy and the ways polyamorous people are not immune to them Polyamorous people are...